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Old February 5th, 2014, 05:35 PM
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This is an example of some of the sick shit parents are doing to their kids that we never hear on the news...the stuff I encounter in my work every day. Biological mom is currently in prison on drug and theft charges. I hope to God the other women in there with her find out what she has done to her child and exact their own kind of justice.

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This is a 7-year-old female who is partially deaf in one ear. Reports that she was sexually abused by her mother, her step grandfather, and her mother's female partner repeatedly to the point they actually made pornographic videos of this, they inserted things into her anus, inserted things into her vagina. She was repeatedly abused in this fashion apparently around age 3 or 4, as near as we can guesstimate, and has begun to act out some of those same behaviors against her 4-year-old half sister in the home. She has been in therapy for at least six months. She has been on medications for six months, since her last visit here. Recently, just before this admission, this is her second psychiatric admission, she was kissing sister's vagina, abusing animals. She killed a cat. Making pornographic videos of herself masturbating, pornographic videos of herself with feces all over her, but no clothes on. Dad is currently deployed. One concern is the biological mom is about to get out of prison. Apparently she is there for theft and drugs. She is about to get out of prison and she is going to try to regain custody of this young girl. She is dangerous around small children. She is dangerous around animals. Friendly, almost seductively, obsequiously friendly and patronizing, especially to men. I find her staring a lot, very unsettling her interactions with adults. She has a very pressured quality about her. Sleep pattern is off. Rage episodes. Poor judgment. Poor insight. Has a manic quality about her. History of masturbating openly. Parents had to take the video camera away from her. When she was 3, she squeezed a kitten to death. She was brought her by her mom due to pinching herself, throwing herself against the wall, abusing animals. Was open about what she has been doing to herself. When she came in she said "I'm here because I've been mad, hitting pets, touching my sister's vagina, kissing her, hurting myself." Harms herself at different times. By report, patient says she dreams about her mom's sexual partner who that she was abused by. That seems to be a real dark spot, a real concerning spot, that she dreams about this woman a lot. She said mom was abusive, grandfather, who is really a step grandfather was abusive toward her as well so there was just a series of these things going on around, I want to say around the age of 3 or 4, somewhere along in there. She has been with her dad and step mom since about 2012, mid 2012, so she has been there for about 18 months. She has been in therapy consistently since then, and she has been on medications at least since she was here in August of last year. Diagnosed with PTSD and mood disorder last year. At some level she knows she needs help, but has been reluctant I think just to really open up about some of these issues. Mom is saying that she no longer feels like this girl is safe in her home at this point until she gets some treatment and gets some help because of the sexual acting out. The 4-year-old daughter is mom's daughter and this 7-year-old girl, patient that we are talking about now, is dad's daughter, and mom and dad married, so they each had 1 child of their own when they got married. I do not think they have any children of their own. DHS is aware and I think is considering opening up a case.

Patient steals. She steals things at school. She stole a camera at school. She likes to out things up her anus, like crayons. She steals things at home. Very distant at times. Hard for the step mom to connect with. The lineage is apparently from age zero to 1 she was with mom and dad together, and then 1 to 2 mom and dad divorced, she went with mom, 1 through 3 lived apparently with grandma and the step grandfather where the perpetration started, and then apparently mom and her sexual partner continued this when she went back with them, and then since age 5 she has been with her biologic dad and her step mom. Apparently born under the influence of drugs. Mom was a drug abuser and is prison for drugs and stealing, by report. Patient consistently stares at people, dances naked, very provocative, has been very sexually provocative toward her father even. No emotional connection with people. Her biologic mom is reportedly bipolar. Her uncle is schizophrenic. Mom says she is getting worse, not better. Mom is not convinced the medications have been helpful. Our strong concern is that this young lady may be bipolar as well as have severe PTSD.
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Our strong concern is that this young lady may be bipolar as well as have severe PTSD.
I'd be thinking brain damage from the fetal drugs as a starting point, myself.
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I'd be thinking brain damage from the fetal drugs as a starting point, myself.

Yep, that's where I'd begin, but this kid has got layers of damage she'll be dealing with all her life.
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That is not entirely true, people can over come things like that, with proper motivation.
Therapy doesn't work all the time, but if there is legitimate illness medication and therapy might help. If there is no legitimate illness, then I would have to say that a very thereputic lifestyle and good friends and family can over come stuff. Definately won't be an over night thing.


But the parents need to be drawn and quartered and burned at the stake.
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I'd be thinking brain damage from the fetal drugs as a starting point, myself.
Indeed,she has been thru alot
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This idea may be controversial, but I believe that gays and lesbians are products of family. Especially those who claim it is the way they were born. I believe it is much more likely they had parents or uncles, aunts or older cousins or siblings who were molesting them at very young ages, In the cradle even. This happens all the time.
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Lets hope the girl can rise above this and get some help, and maybe an attempt at a good life someday.
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